Sara's Dating Diary: Stop being the chill girl!

Wednesday, October 4th

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Sara's Dating Diary: Stop being the chill girl!

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First serious day. You diary on me. I'm gonna tell you seek trick. My entire life I have strived. To be to chill girl. God forbid anyone I'm dating ever coming clean eat different colts emotional irrational or since today and I am so scared of those words that I will do anything possible to not be called them in a relationship. Sunset until the chill Scully government your entire life eating comic for five days no worry until. He told me something you didn't like about my body. It's up. You need everything violate ask cool I'm Chelsea and act I can't really remember timer ever told a guy what I needed. This week I came across an article and vogue entitled. How I learned to stop being a quote chill girl and start being mean and out of leg. Can meet. In the article my fellow chill girl Martins. Sarah that the rules of the chill girl are not to take it too much space. Ford to make too much of a fuss. And frankly it's awful and I was like preach girl so today I wanna share it's on my it's still ladies out there are three things according to nineteen a former chill girl that we need to do you ASAP. Number one kick comfortable saying now. Things like I'm not crazy about it do that doesn't work for me and no thinks her so hard pressed to say. So instead of all the above the writer martini encourages us to say. No one's comfort is more important than my peace of mind and well being and a need to stop feeling guilty about that. Number two don't get to know yourself Martina says. Like Dixon don't appreciate that authentic self when you're at home lounging in sweat pants and drinking wine and finally number three. Don't apologize for your quirks embrace them. I get told all this time I'm a quirky girl all this time so what happens on dates I apologize from my quirks. If I'm nervous I apologize if I giggle I apologize if I say that I like to go to museums I apologize because that's a probably weird thing to say. Martina says someone will appreciate them just make sure you're the first to appreciate your quirks. Sit today sheriff Martins final side. And let's make this the toast so hold up your coffee you're teary orange juice and promise this. Today in the days to come I wish her speedy death to chill girl surviving only to please people. And a long and fruitful life to the women who is patiently been waiting underneath cheers that is my eating diary. Love it shares daily diaries online makes 47 down.
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